Thursday, May 12, 2011

The Times They are a Changing

Last night my little sister informed us all that she is moving in with her boyfriend. I have no idea when my sister go to the age to make choices like this, i feel like she is still to young, but she seems to think other wise. To me she will always be an annoying three year old on a bike.

Who am I to stop these choices from being made, she is an adult and has to make her mistakes. However, I want to shake her! She is 19 years old, no job, no money. Either her or her boyfriend are able to drive, this is a very poorly put together plan. And she just made plans to get a puppy tomorrow!! Are you kidding me.

This is just another thing that proves how different we are and I have to come to terms with it and her growing up. The choices she makes are NOT the choices I would make for myself. I want an education and to travel and to do things and be young without having to go home to someone. Again I have to come to terms with the fact that we are so different and want completely different things out of life.

I really don't know what to do. Any suggestion??

2 comments:

  1. Need you mean neither of them drive? Just wait til they have fight and she wants to leave.... Considering I'm the little sister that my siblings probably would have wanted to shake had they known me better when I was basically living with Matt and got a Penny, I can't offer up any advice. Either way it'll be a good learning experience for her! I just hope it turns out well! Do they talk about getting married? I have no problem with people living together (and actually think it's a good thing) before they're married but I do think that there has to be a future....

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  2. I just had to say that my little code word thing to leave a comment was 'uncop'. Weird.

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